It just makes me so mad. So many of my families problems could have be prevented if the world has just been a little bit kinder, a little bit more open minded, a little bit more progressive. Instead each member of my family was trapped by an oppressive systems of welfare and social, outdated educational standards and sociological standards that failed to prepare them for reality, for adulthood, for life. Blamed them, criminalised them, shamed them. Victim blaming. Generational, systematic victim blaming.